The pick up girls subject is a very interesting one if you look it by the phsychological point of view. One of the first insecurities you have to face when you want to learn how to pick up girls is the one about your looks. Ok, let’s face it: One of the main reasons you, me and the other guys fail when it comes to approaching women is because we don’t have the inner confidence to talk to the girls.
Why? Because most of the times we felt that we are not good enough. Our mind tells us “Heey, c’mon! You don’t deserve that girl!. You are fat, you are ugly, you are bald, you are too tall, you are too short…!”. Man, if you can only shut that little voice inside your head.
So, I’m gonna tell you a little secret that is gonna help you realize something that will calm those evil voices that kept you away from those girls you always wanted to talk to.
Looks doesn’t matter that much. In fact, after you have the confidence and the skills to approach and pick up girls, you’ll find that looks doesn’t matter at all!.
Yes, you’ve read that right. Looks doesn’t matter at ALL.
Hey, I’m not telling you to stop bathing,brushing your teeth and combing your hair (if you still have hair, if you don’t, dont’ worry!). All I’m saying is this: It’s all about CONFIDENCE. And how will you gain that confidence?. First of all, you have to clear your mind. Get out that misconception that only good looking guys can have the most beautiful girls. It’s not true.
Second, you have to get the best out of you. You can have a neat haircut, put that manly perfume (I’m not referring to body sweat!), go to someone who can advice about your clothes, hit the gym!. It will have and external effect and most important: You’re gonna feel good about yourself. You’re gonna feel worthy. So do it!. It’s never too late!.
